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The Sabbath

Saturday, August 28th, 2010

As I blogged about earlier, this year in school we are focusing on the period of Creation to the Greeks.  Throughout the year we will be learning about and celebrating the Jewish feasts.

We started out by observing the Sabbath, as traditionally as possible.  Throughout the week we prepared for the weekend ahead, but especially during the day Friday we worked to make this a special and memorable “event”.  We prepared the meal, we cleaned, we made special crafts, and we learned a lot of the background behind some of the rituals during the Sabbath.  Even though we are obviously not Jewish, this is our ancestry, we are God’s people.

We began our Sabbath at 7:46 pm on Friday, the time of sunset according to Benjamin’s investigation.  Yes, we ate our dinner that late!  The meal included special prayers, blessings on each of the children, singing of a hymn, the lighting of the candles, the washing of our hands (ceremonially in the white water bowl), blessing and drinking of the “wine” (grape juice), and the breaking of the challah bread (made and hand woven by Mom and Benjamin) with blessing.  We also had a candlestick salad that Michaela had prepared.

While this was so very different from our regular family meal times, the kids took it all in stride and thought it was great.  They enjoyed helping prepare for all of this and the specialness of the occasion.

Today we kept the Sabbath as a day of rest and just enjoyed being together as a family, playing games and sharing together.  At 7:45 pm (sunset tonight) we blew out the candles and passed around the spices to smell (covered matchbox with cloves and cinnamon sticks) to remind us of Jesus death and the fragrance of new life that we can carry on with us through the new week.  Then we went outside together to watch for the first three stars signifying the end of Sabbath.

There is so much more meaning behind each of the rituals and traditions.  We followed a great book, Celebrating Biblical Feasts, that adds meaning to the traditions so that we as believers in Jesus Christ can appreciate the Sabbath all the more.  It was a wonderful Sabbath, one that brought much more meaning to our Sundays that I’m sure none of us will soon forget!

Everyone pitched in to make this very special setting

Challah bread cover made by the girls, bread woven by the boys, floating star candles made by B, E, J

Spice box made by the boys

He’s Home!

Thursday, August 26th, 2010

This morning we were blessed to be a part of welcoming HOME and celebrating the arrival of our nephew/cousin, Titus!  How exciting to see Kevin and Alicia (Chris’ brother and SIL) walk off the plane holding their first child.  Parenthood suits them well and they acted as if they had been with Titus since the day he was born.

We well know what it’s like to have traveled more than 24 hours and we were quite impressed with how alert and great all three looked.  Titus was bright-eyed and talkative and gave out smiles.  He was especially infatuated with the balloons we had greeted him with.  America’s newest citizen didn’t even mind being passed around by all of his adoring fans!  We enjoyed some more time with him and family for brunch before letting them head on home to crash and get into their new routine.

Welcome home, Titus!  We love you and look forward to many more days together.

Grandpas, Grandmas, Uncles, Auntie and Cousins

Do they look happy, or what?!

Blog Name

Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

I’m sure you all have noticed that we have quite an original and exciting title to our blog.  Ha!  When Chris set us up on WordPress and moved us from our original babyjellybeans blog (for Ami’s adoption) he just set up the basics with no frills.  Honestly for three years I’ve never paid any attention to the title that he put at the top, but recently it has stared me in the face with all of it’s unpretentiousness.  I think it’s about time to change things up and do a little decorating.  I don’t know how much will actually happen, but I’m determined to at least find a more fitting blog name.

So, come one, come all and throw out a few suggestions for me!  I’d love to have something that fits our family just right, that speaks of who we are and how we live.  Thanks for helping me out with your creativity.  :)

P.S.  We’re headed to the airport in the morning to meet our new little nephew.  Can’t wait!

School 2010-2011

Monday, August 23rd, 2010

We are officially back to school today.  We had quite a long summer break and most of us are feeling ready to be back into more of a routine.  So it’s back to a scheduled wake-up call and ready to start school by 8 am.

Michaela is starting high school this year, 9th grade.  After research and prayer we decided to continue homeschooling and to continue with My Father’s World curriculum.  The first year core is Bible (OT survey), Ancient History, and Literature with an emphasis on composition.  She is also adding Geometry (MathUSee), Physical Science (Apologia), Japanese (Rosetta Stone), Intro to Logic (elective from  MFW) 1st semester, Drafting (elective from MFW) 2nd semester, and Band (at a local Christian school).  She is also taking a SAT prep course over the next three years.  That’s a total of 8 credit hours and there is more to come.  She is a great self-starter and is doing most everything independently.  Love that first born!

Benjamin is now in 6th grade and Johanna is in 4th grade.  I still haven’t labeled Elijah, but that’s one thing I love about home schooling….I don’t have to!  For these three we are using My Father’s World, and are now in our fourth year with this curriculum. This year our focus is the Creation to the Greeks period.  All of the Bible, Science, and History center on this theme and it really helps give continuity to our studies.  All three of them use MathUSee, and the MFW recommendations for English,  Spelling, Art and Music.  Benjamin and Johanna are in their second year of Japanese, and Elijah is studying Chinese on a computer program.

Ami isn’t kindergarten age until next year, but I decided to start her on the MFW kindergarten curriculum and just do half this year and half next year.  We’ll see how it goes, but she seems more than ready and it will help me to break it up and give her the time that she needs.  She was very excited to have her “own” school today.   She also frequently joins in with the older kids depending on what activities we are doing.  It always amazes me what she picks up.

I’m sure I’ve left something out, but that sure seems like enough, doesn’t it?!  We only have one in organized sports this fall.  Elijah is doing soccer, so that gives us a bit of a break.  Michaela has logged at least a semester worth of PE hours with her hiking and biking this summer.

Our morning went pretty smoothly, probably my smoothest start to a home schooling year.  We took a break at lunch and picked up sandwiches and met Chris at the park.  One day down, how many to go???

My goofy kids surprised me with grapes this morning and said, “Good Morning, Teacher.”  They wanted to give me apples, but there were none to be found.  Ha!

Titus has his Mommy and Daddy

Saturday, August 21st, 2010

We were so excited to receive this picture by email last night.  What joy on Daddy and Mommy’s faces!  We are anxiously awaiting more news about how things are going and keep stalking their website.

FAMILY!

Kevin and Alicia, we love you guys and couldn’t be happier for you.  Now hurry on home so we can give Titus our hugs and kisses.

State Fair

Friday, August 20th, 2010

I have only been to our state fair one other time (11 years ago) and yesterday I was reminded of why I haven’t been back in so long.  It’s too stinkin’ hot and humid!!  Other than sweating buckets, we had a great time.  This was kind of our last hurrah of summer so we rode some rides, ate cotton candy and other fair junk food, petted some animals, were amazed at the corralling work of the cowboys (and girls), cheered for pigs in the pig races, and were wowed by the adorable jumping dogs, all the while trying to keep hydrated with water.

I love the look on Elijah's face, as Benjamin has no idea what's about to hit him. Ha!

Barely tall enough (3 ft) to ride the kiddie rides on her own

Yes, that would be my goofy Johanna fanning herself and dramatizing how hot it was.

We got home just in time to shovel down some supper and get Elijah to his first soccer practice.  I believe summer is officially over and our fall routine has begun.  Michaela started school on Monday and the rest of us will start this coming Monday.  I’ve been in the final throes of preparation and am excited and ready to start learning with the kids again.

Go get that boy!

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

Today is the long awaited day for Chris’ brother and sister-in-law to head to Taiwan to meet their son.  We couldn’t be more excited for them.  Children are indeed a gift from the Lord, whether by biological lines or by plane (!).  We are in awe of how God knits families together through adoption and think it’s even more incredible that He chose the three Wolfe brothers to all adopt children into our Wolfe family tree.   We are blessed!  This makes eight cousins, five of which have been woven into our family by the miracle of adoption.  We can’t wait to meet our nephew and cousin, Titus Andrew, in just one week!  Kevin and Alicia, go get that boy already!!

Happy Birthday, Benjamin!

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Today we are celebrating Benjamin’s 12th birthday.  I think this summer it’s really hitting me how much our kids are growing up and getting older.  I don’t feel older, so why should they be getting older?  Ha!

Our family tradition is to let the birthday person choose what they want for their birthday meal (meaning supper).  Well, somehow this tradition has grown over the years and now it’s not just “the” birthday meal, but every meal on their special day.  We have had some interesting combinations and the choices aren’t usually very well balanced or the healthiest, but it’s fun to make the birthday person’s day a bit more special.  So, here were Benjamin’s requests for today.

Breakfast:  homemade cinnamon rolls, cinnamon coffee, chocolate milk, no vitamins (he plugs his nose while taking them each morning!)

Lunch:  quesadillas, cantelope, Dr. Pepper

Supper:  sloppy joes, fruit salad, Dr. Pepper

Birthday dessert:  homemade chocolate cake (special recipe with coffee), chocolate frosting, vanilla bean ice cream

At least there is some healthy fruit in all of that!

Chris went into work late this morning so that we could have breakfast together and so that Benjamin could open his gifts.  He’s been in and out all day between playing with his new robot inside and trying to master his Rip Stick outside.  So far, no injuries, but I know his gut muscles are going to be so sore tomorrow.  :)

We also went swimming this afternoon and the kids had a great time.  Benjamin chose a movie to watch tonight and we enjoyed just being together as a family.

With his favorite coffee mug

Oh, this scares Mom

Happy Birthday, Buddy.  We love you so much and love the young man that you are becoming.  You have some amazingly creative talents and we can’t wait to see how God uses you in the future.

To the train

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

We took Grandpa and Grandma down to JC today to catch the train to KC.  GG Wolfe have used the train a few times this summer to get around and it has worked out very nicely.  The kids were quite interested in how it all worked (especially Elijah).  We may or may not get to see them again before they head back to Russia.

You can barely see Grandma waving back at us as Johanna blows a kiss

On a totally different note, my eldest is growing up!  She started high school this week (at home).  It still hasn’t sunk in with me.  Oh my!

And on another note…Ami has been very into coloring and cutting the last two days.  She has spent a LONG time very carefully coloring Strawberry Shortcake printouts and then cutting them out.  I am amazed at her scissor skills.  They are better than mine!

Check out the determination on her little face

"Mommy, please take a picture of me."

Such pride. And notice the two little black marker dots on her nose. :)

More time with Grandparents

Monday, August 16th, 2010

We are enjoying more time with grandparents here; this time with Grandpa and Grandma Wolfe.  Michaela and I had a couple of days to get settled back at home before GG Wolfe arrived last Thursday.  The kids have had lots of fun playing games with them and doing other activities.  We also got to celebrate Grandpa’s birthday with him last week.

Grandpa's Special Day

Grandpa tormenting the kids....they couldn't take a bite of cake until he had the official bite

Grandma giving more crochet lessons using plastic grocery bags

Grandma giving more crochet lessons using plastic grocery bags

Alphabet game with Grandpa

Alphabet game with Grandpa

Treated to Culvers

Treated to Culvers

On another note, it was two years ago yesterday that we received a call (different post from the first link) from our agency that we had officially been matched with Zhu Fengfei, our Elijah.  We had known in our hearts for a year that we were a match, but it just took that long for the CC*A to acknowledge that.  :)   What an incredibly happy day that was!

Right after referral call - August 15, 2008