Archive for the ‘Elijah’ Category

Garage Sale

Friday, June 25th, 2010

We are trying a garage sale for the first time at this house (today and tomorrow).  We don’t have the best location for a sale and didn’t know how it would go.  Well, despite good signs and advertising we didn’t have much traffic at all.  The kids are pleased enough so far because they get to divide the profits, but for Mommy’s time and efforts I would much rather have just donated to the Goodwill.  Hopefully we’ll see some more sales tomorrow and then the garage will be all cleared out.

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Sorry, the kid isn't for the taking; he's a priceless treasure!  :)

Sorry, the kid isn't for the taking; he's a priceless treasure! :)

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The BEST news of the day is that at 11:45 am Daddy called to say that he was heading home with our “something big”.  And get this…..at the EXACT same time the deck guys were pulling out of the driveway leaving behind our completed deck!  Yea, God!!  I’ll post more pictures of the deck later, and I can’t wait to post pictures tomorrow when Daddy is home.

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More Swimming

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

We finished up our two weeks of swimming lessons today.  Ami, Johanna, and Elijah have all had a blast.  They also each passed to their next respective levels.

Ami's class practiced using life vests in the diving well

Ami's class practiced using life vests in the diving well

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Elijah and Johanna's class in the 16 ft diving well

Elijah and Johanna's class in the 16 ft diving well

On the home front, Benjamin has been fascinated with Iron Man, even though he hasn’t seen the movie.  He is working on creating a whole outfit to somewhat replicate all the pictures he’s seen.  This is one of his helmet creations from Legos.

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In other news, Chris flies down to Florida tomorrow morning to pick up something big.  I’ll post pictures when he gets back on Saturday.   :)   The kids and I will hold down the fort and have a garage sale this weekend.  The deck is just about done.  And we are anxiously awaiting the arrival of lots of family here next week!  That’s it in a nutshell at Wolfe park.

Father’s Day

Monday, June 21st, 2010

We had somewhat of a low key day, but enjoyed celebrating the wonderful father in our household.  We treated Daddy to cinnamon rolls for breakfast, some nice gifts, and then dinner out after church.  We are very blessed to have Chris as a positive role model and Godly example to our kids.

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Looks like a crowd around Daddy, but I bet we could fit another kid or two in, don’t you?  ;-)

Swimming Lessons

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

It’s that time of year again.   This year Michaela and Benjamin opted out of lessons.  They didn’t want to pursue any more and I’m fine with that.  Elijah and Johanna wanted to continue on and it’s good for them to gain more skills.  They are in the same level together.

This is Ami’s first time for lessons and she is loving it.  It’s so fun to observe your kids with other kids, something I don’t get to do as often as some parents do.  Ami is quite the silly one of the group and instigates “fun” ideas, which really means that she isn’t always paying attention to the teacher.  There is another little Asian girl in her class with whom she has made fast friends.  The other girl is a hoot, too…oh my, I almost feel sorry for their teacher!

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Yes, Ami is that dark!

Yes, Ami is that dark!

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Dragon Boat Festival

Saturday, June 12th, 2010

Through our FCC group (Families with Children from China) we heard about a Dragon Boat Festival picnic going on in town yesterday.  It was sponsored by a local Chinese Association which we learned is basically a group of local Chinese that get together once in a while and put on special events.  Since Dragon Boat Festival is one of the three top holidays in China we thought it would be fun to attend.  Well, other than a paper dragon boat on one of the picnic tables, there wasn’t anything else relating to the holiday.  It was just an excuse for the group to have a picnic.  There were only three other Caucasians there, but we were warmly welcomed and enjoyed chatting with some of the folks.  The kids enjoyed eating some Chinese food and learning some paper folding.

We want to celebrate parts of Chinese culture in our family and be around Chinese people when possible, yet it seems like our most awkward times as an adoptive family are when we are surrounded by Chinese people.  We get so many questions, people try to speak Chinese to Elijah (which he can’t even comprehend anymore), and we get the usual “lucky kids” or “it’s unusual to get a Chinese boy” comments.  We want all of our kids to be comfortable around these kinds of events, yet this or even going to a Chinese restaurant make us all feel a bit uncomfortable because of the comments.  We just have to pray and ask for wisdom to know how and when to “culture” our kids.

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I love how intently Ami is working on her paper folding!

I love how intently Ami is working on her paper folding!

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Aunts and Cousins

Friday, June 11th, 2010

We’ve had a busy and fun week.  Aunt Alicia, Aunt Kate, Elle and Zane came over to play for a couple of days.  It had been too long since we were last together and the kids were chomping at the bit to play together.

It was fun to chat about our new cousin, Titus, and to hear more details.  We are hoping and praying that he will be home in early August.  Isn’t he too cute?  He fits right in with our family with those dimples!

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More rides in the "carriage"

More rides in the "carriage"

Zane climbed up to the top bunk

Zane practiced his new climbing skills and discovered the top bunk

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Still cute when crying for mama

Still cute when crying for mama

Mama makes is all better

Mama makes is all better

I love how Zane is holding onto Michaela's hand.  He did get brave enough to pet the kitty.

I love how Zane is holding onto Michaela's hand. He did get brave enough to pet the kitty.

After a rough winter it was so good to see Zane healthy and happy

After a rough winter it was so good to see Zane healthy and happy

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The aunts were relentlessly teasing Benjamin about his beloved Kitty, but he took it all in stride and dished it right back.

The aunts were relentlessly teasing Benjamin about his beloved Kitty, but he took it all in stride and dished it right back.

The second our cousins were leaving down our driveway Ami said, “Mom, I miss Elle and Zane. “  Hopefully we’ll see them sooner than later this time!  Thanks for coming guys, we had much fun.

FCC Picnic

Sunday, June 6th, 2010

I thought I’d try to get in a post before the week got started and got away from me this time!

Yesterday we enjoyed getting together with our local Families with Children from China (FCC) group.  Elijah and Benjamin are vastly outnumbered by all the girls, but they all had fun together.  There was a Hollywood theme and Ami wanted to dress up in her cheerleader outfit.  It’s neat to ooh and aah over all the kids and watch them grow.  Even though we all just want our adopted kids to be regular kids, they do have a special background and it’s often noticed by outsiders who don’t see beyond the fact that you are a Caucasian with an Asian child.  It’s good to be with similar families and just enjoy playing together.

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Also, thanks to those of you who left comments on my last post.  I appreciated reading your thoughts and insights.  They were great food for thought.

Another Week of Summer

Friday, June 4th, 2010

We haven’t had a lot going on to post about.  It’s been really nice to enjoy being home more without so much of a schedule.  With school out and some of our regular activities finished it’s been a breath of fresh air.  We’ve finally seen a little bit of progress on our deck and hopefully it will be finished next week.  We are really looking forward to the outdoor living space and to sharing our home with visitors this summer.  Here are some pictures from the week.

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Screaming Eagles landing to start the Memorial Day parade

It felt like a hot July day despite being May for the parade

It felt like a hot July day despite being May for the parade

Elijah enjoyed being patriotic by waving his flag.  After he understood what Memorial Day was about he said, "I want to be a soldier so I can help my country."

Elijah enjoyed being patriotic by waving his flag. After he understood what Memorial Day was about he said, "I want to be a soldier so I can help my country."

Day 1 of progress

Day 1 of progress

Day 1 - Exciting to visualize things better

Day 1 - Exciting to visualize things better

Today's progress, starting to get a look at the cedar

Today's progress, starting to get a look at the cedar

The kids have already spent hours on the rope swing this summer

The kids have already spent hours on the rope swing this summer

Oh the ladder always scares me, but they get so much air from the top!

Oh the ladder always scares me, but they get so much air from the top!

Such a pretty girl!

Such a pretty girl!

I want to ask adoptive parents about this last picture.  When we were in China last we bought two of these shirts, one for Ami and one for Elijah.  It seems like a bad joke, but at the same time it’s cute in a way.  If someone outside of the adoption realm were to have given us these shirts I honestly probably would have been appalled.  They seem tacky to me, yet cute enough that it was okay for me to buy them.  It’s still a dilemma for me.  I haven’t allowed the Ami or Elijah to wear them away from home.  I love that two of my kiddos were born in China and I want them to be proud of that fact, yet I don’t want these shirts to degrade them as if they were a commodity that can be purchased.  Know what I mean?  So any of my adoptive friends that are reading this, feel free to share your thoughts!

Our Week

Saturday, May 29th, 2010

We are enjoying our first week home with no school.  Ahhh, summer break is nice.  Here are a few pictures from the week.

I'm sure this is the only time you or I will ever see our boys holding hands.  Benjamin was pretending to be blind and Elijah was guiding him down the library steps.  They were mortified when they found out I had taken a picture!

I'm sure this is the only time you or I will ever see our boys holding hands. Benjamin was pretending to be blind and Elijah was guiding him down the library steps. They were mortified when they found out I had taken a picture!

We've had a busy week trapping coons in our garage.  They come in the cat door and have become quite an annoyance.  We've caught four now and relocated them.

We've had a busy week trapping coons in our garage. They come in the cat door and have become quite an annoyance. We've caught four now and relocated them.

The four youngest have played a lot in our mini pools this week.  Thankfully the big pools open this weekend and we can go to a "real" pool!

The four youngest have played a lot in our mini pools this week. Thankfully the big pools open this weekend and we can go to a "real" pool!

We spent quite a bit of time in our local Amish area yesterday.  We bought lots of FRESH strawberries, eggs, and other goodies.

We spent quite a bit of time in our local Amish area yesterday. We bought lots of FRESH strawberries, eggs, and other goodies.

Our favorite BBQ rib place

Our favorite BBQ rib place

We enjoyed our local Memorial Day Air Show today

We enjoyed our local Memorial Day Air Show today

Florida Trip – Day 7

Sunday, May 23rd, 2010

We got loaded up and headed out early this morning.  We hit a lot of rain and traffic along the way, but made it to the Coomers for a yummy dinner.  It was great to see them again.  This is our third visit and each time we’ve added a kid.  Ha!  It was neat to have Elijah with us this time.  They took us out to their new farm property where they plan to build.  It is a gorgeous setting in the rolling Kentucky hills.  We can’t wait to visit them there next time.

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